Senin, 20 Juli 2015

The Importance of Your Children Reading Every Day

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I recalled one sunny afternoon sitting at home in the Sunshine State. I felt like a volcano was being erupted from my stomach. I thought perhaps I had contracted the flu. After a few days I decided to look further into these moments of motion sickness. Only to discover that my wonderful husband and I had made our dreams of being parents a reality.
Some may say I was being prescient, but I have been reading to our son since he was merely a zygote. I recall my husband laughing. He thought it was funny, but cute. The stage of development at that point was immaterial. After all, I had a life growing inside.
It is with deep pleasure that I share that today, at age five, my son is an avid reader. He spells words that I am not ashamed to say, at eight years old, or a tad bit older, I would have found challenging. So would most eight-year-olds.
Whenever I sit down to read with my son, we don't just read to read; we read with a purpose, and he enjoys it.
Parents, I am not here to sell you on the idea that reading to your children at conception will gain or motivate their interests in reading. The two may even be unrelated.
I am simply sharing my perspective on the importance of reading.
I am very mindful of the fact that sometimes with our busy schedule it may seem like a daunting task, but 15 minutes a day will go a far way.
I do have a very hectic schedule myself, so I can totally relate. However, we take 15 minutes out of our schedule on a daily basis to have what we like to call "a reading session" with our five year old. It is a great and rewarding experience. Our son does build a stronger relationship with us during this time as well.
I can affirm that when our son was born, he was not "connate with reading". Neither were your children. But we have instilled such positive practices in him by making reading a part of our everyday lives.
There are countless reasons why it is pertinent to encourage your children to read every day. These reasons are not only vital to your child's academic excellence, but they are crucial to their literacy level in and out of the classroom.
So what other compelling reasons should you have to read with your child every day?
1. As they grow, their mastery of language is extremely important. Beginning kindergarten with the key fundamentals is an essential path to success.
2. There is a social benefit. Have you ever visited a children's section at your local library? Notice how fascinated the kids are with the books, while taking the time to observe each other and their selections. It brings them together in a positive way, teaching them how to behave appropriately, sitting quietly to listen to story- telling and so forth.
3. Clean and productive fun. Reading is a great opportunity for children to try their hands at some fun, while being productive. I advertise the joy of reading within my household. Therefore, before I even say on your mark, get ready, my son runs to his play room to get his book. He does not even wait for me to say go. FUN! FUN! FUN!
4. Making use of the mind. It is distressingly bad to waste the mind.
5. Blooming into adult literacy. As cute and adorable as our children are, they will not stay that way forever. They do grow up. Unfortunately, there are too many adults lacking the minimum literacy skills. Do not let your child join this group.
Read with your child today, and let literacy be a vehicle for their future and identity.
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The Joy of Children

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I have been doing quite a bit of traveling lately and have noticed that into the grouchiest of scenes full of disgruntled folks, the smile of a child, the gurgling of a baby, the babble of happy children bring grins to the faces of all those in attendance. Can you remain in a negative mood when a tiny hand reaches out to grasp yours with a gentle squeeze as his delicate skin brushes against your own? Or how about walking by a swimming pool from which raucous laughs and loud crashes of cascading water greet your ears and turn a frown into a beam of joy? Or when your granddaughter teases you with a bit of melted chocolate offered on sticky fingers because she wants to share the love. Kids keep us young with their innocence and desire to please. Their cheerfulness and sheer glee are delightful.
As I observed this dreamlike world of happiness, my daughter-in-law pointed out that some of the grouchy folks who now are smiling are also weird. And so as I watched more intently, I had to agree the old drunk who is grinning is also chattering and making me nervous to watch him just as the lady who wants to pat my grandchildren's heads with her grimy palm is sort of creepy. I also recognize that most of these people are lonely and that they mean well, but their paths in life have led them into unsavory circumstances and they are a little scary and intrusive.
My daughter who is now 7 months pregnant added that she is shocked by the number of strangers who approach her and want to touch her stomach to feel the baby kick. Even I, her mother, ask first when it comes to placing my hand over the womb so I certainly understand her reticence with these unwelcome advances. Some people invade privacy by asking personal questions of her like what type of delivery she is planning or they share their own, personal childbirth horrors. But I try to discount all of these oddballs and focus on the joy that children naturally bring.
If you are feeling sad, take a stroll to the park and then sit on the bench and watch kids at play. You can also head to the swimming pool, a school playground, or walk through a neighborhood where children are playing tag outside or riding bikes along sidewalks. Their giggles are good for the heart and the soul. I must warn you, however, that two problems may arise from these upbeat recommendations. First, sometimes while the kids are amazing, their parents or caregivers are not. It breaks my heart to hear moms yelling obscenities at their children or making crazy threats or behaving in a brash, hurtful manner. I just have to get up and leave. While I have tried gentle advice, typically this just escalates the mean behavior, and harms the children even more. Cruel words are terrible.
Or if you go to many parks, pools, and playgrounds, you may be perceived as one of the weirdos my daughter-in-law warned me about and that is sad as most people can greatly benefit from the happiness exuded by children.
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